We all want to support our family, friends, and loved ones after they undergo surgery. Whether it’s a major operation or a laparoscopic surgery, the recovery period can be a challenging transition. Everyone’s recovery period following surgery looks different, but there are common ways you can help.
Whether you’ll be staying with them during their recovery or just visiting, here’s how you can make life easier as they rest, heal, and regain their strength.
Preparing the home for recovery is one of the most valuable ways to help someone after surgery. Depending on the type of procedure and their physical condition, they’ll likely spend most of the first week—or longer—at home. A few simple adjustments can make a big difference, like ensuring essential items are easy to access and minimising unnecessary movement.
Set aside an afternoon or evening before their return from the hospital to create a calm, comfortable recovery space. Create a list of what they’ll need, what’s already available, and what might need to be purchased. Once you have everything, set up multiple "recovery hubs" around the house. Keep essential items like medications, water, snacks, and personal care supplies within easy reach. Adding practical tools, such as jar openers or non-slip bathmats, can promote safety and independence.
A well-balanced, nutritious diet is important at every stage of surgery recovery. However, cooking can feel like a chore—especially when it leaves behind a pile of dishes—so any help in the kitchen is usually appreciated. If you’re cooking for them, talk to them about their likes and dislikes. Focus on creating meals that are both nutritious and enjoyable, keeping the menu varied to avoid food fatigue. A mix of comfort food and lighter, nutrient-rich meals often works well.
To take the burden off them, go the extra mile and pick up the groceries for them or suggest going together if they’re able.
As their recovery continues, nothing beats coming to see them in person. When you’re dropping in, here are some things you could do:
Words of encouragement can be just as important as physical help during post-surgery recovery. Kind messages can lift their spirits and help them feel supported. However, knowing what to say can be tricky, and it’s natural to worry about saying the wrong thing. If you’re unsure how to express yourself, remember—it’s the thought that truly counts.
To make it easier, we’ve put together some suggestions for what to say. These simple yet thoughtful phrases can inspire you and bring comfort to someone during their recovery:
Even a small message can brighten their day and remind them they’re not alone.
From cooking to doing chores, these are just some of the ways you can help someone recover from surgery. Recovery can be challenging, but there are plenty of ways to provide assistance. As an experienced HPB surgeon, Dr Michael Chu has helped many patients ease into post-surgery recovery. If you’re looking for expert care, book a consultation today.